Dear Ain’t got time

Hey Shay.

I’ve been “seeing” this guy for about 2 months and he is saying that he wants to be exclusive. When I want to see him and spend time with him (outside of my house) he is never really available. Am I wrong for spending time (outside of my house) with another guy that is available?

Ain’t got time


Well Ain’t got time,

It sounds like you are actively dating. I do not see anything wrong with you going out with the other guy.

I will say that you need to be honest with both men and allow them to make their own decision as it relates to what they what their role in your life to be. If the first guy is serious about being in a relationship with you he will move forward. You need to be sure that the second guy is not catching feelings and you are not walking into a love triangle.

Again, I say, as long as everyone is aware of what is going on and everyone is fine with the way things are set up then I do not see a problem. I believe that you will only have a problem if you begin to tell either of them things that they want to hear just to get something that you want.

Hope it works out.


What do you think?