OK…So, I’ve been single for close to 5 years now. It has been very interesting learning about myself during this time. I learned a lot about what I want and what I don’t want. I learned about what I will and will not accept and tolerate. I learned that I am stronger than I ever thought that I was and I deserve a man who appreciates all of me. I learned my worth. I learned my value. I learned myself.
I learned that I do not want to be with a man simply because he is a man. I learned that my standards are not too high nor are they unrealistic.
I have dated/talked to/kicked it with all types of men. A man who does not contribute to my life in any way is not the man for me. I know what I want in life and I know what I want in a man. I am very selective.
I do not enter into relationships without careful thought because of the way that I am. I am very focused on pursuing my dreams and making things happen for my family. I cannot be with a man who does not support me in my endeavors nor can I support/be with a man who does not have goals for his life.
I am driven and I need someone who is driven. Opposites attract and birds of a feather flock together. I want to have a best friend in my man. I want to have a man who is comfortable with me being who I am. I want to be with a man who is ambitious and constantly seeking to progress. I need a forward thinking man. I want a King that is fit for the Queen that I am.
I am a goal digger. I am not interested in what he can buy me. I am interested in what his soul provides me. I am not interested in his labels. I am interested in if he is mentally stable. I am not interested in how much money he spent. I am interested in him being Heaven sent. I know what I want and I know what I deserve. For those reasons, my standards will not be curved.